In Your Head with Jodi and Judy
Welcome to In Your Head with Jodi and Judy! We are all about harnessing the power of your mindset for success.
We are two professional career women, moms, and mental growth gurus who want to help people get out of their own way so they can live the life they desire with empowerment and intention.
Most of us grow up adopting bad habits that don’t serve us, but actually sabotage our performance, relationships, self-actualization and the pursuit of happiness, freedom, and success. In this podcast we share insight, real life experiences, and proven techniques for squelching those bad habits once and for all.
You will learn how to identify when you are in self-sabotage mode, intercept those saboteurs, and retrain your neural pathways while increasing your mental muscle and developing stronger self-command.
Regardless of whether you self-sabotage in your career, your relationships, or other aspects of your life, mental fitness is the key to achieving your dreams. Your attitude and behavior is completely your choice! So stop letting your bad habits prevent you from achieving what you deserve by choosing to do the things that serve you best.
-Judy Gielniak & Jodi Hallerman
In Your Head with Jodi and Judy
Episode 12: How Family Dynamics Can Be Positively Impacted With the Proper Tools and Mindset.
When Jennifer first reached out to us, she was at her wit's end, overwhelmed by the demands of caring for her injured 85-year-old mother. Her story is one many of us can relate to—feeling trapped in a cycle of resentment, guilt, and anger. In this heartfelt episode, we unpack Jennifer's emotional turmoil, identifying the saboteurs like the Judge, Victim, Pleaser, and Stickler that amplify her struggles. We introduce the SAGE principles of Positive Intelligence, starting with the power of exploration, to help Jennifer navigate her challenging circumstances and uncover new perspectives.
Jennifer's well-being and relationships are strained by exhaustion and lack of support, a common scenario for many caregivers. Together, we dissect the complex family dynamics at play, distinguishing between the facts and the stories we tell ourselves. We ponder whether Jennifer's mother's difficult behavior might be fueled by fear rather than ingratitude. Through self-empathy and reconnecting with her childhood self, Jennifer begins to foster compassion for herself and her mother. We also delve into the crucial steps of seeking support and taking action to address these emotional challenges effectively.
Empathy and creative problem-solving take center stage as we guide Jennifer in visualizing her loved ones as their pure, childlike selves, offering fresh perspectives on her mother's and husband's struggles. The "Navigate" tool provides wisdom from Jennifer's elder self, while the "Innovate" tool sparks creative solutions through focusing on the positive aspects of each idea. Practical strategies like kind communication and breaking tasks into manageable steps are explored to help Jennifer transform her hostile environment into a supportive and loving one. Join us in this episode for practical, compassionate guidance that resonates with anyone facing similar family challenges.
Highlight Timestamps
(04:55 - 06:17) The Essence of Deep Curiosity
(10:39 - 12:05) Recognizing and Overcoming Saboteurs
(14:34 - 15:49) Utilizing Empathy for Personal Growth
(19:42 - 21:59) Improving Relationship Through Kindness and Graciousness
(28:59 - 30:04) Action Steps and Accountability in Innovation
Chapter Summaries
(00:00) Navigating Family Challenges With Positive Intelligence
Jennifer's struggles with caring for her elderly mother and the role of saboteurs in her emotions, using SAGE principles to explore and find gifts.
(06:27) Exploring Perspectives and Finding Empathy
Jennifer's challenges caring for her aging mother, including exhaustion, resentment, and guilt, and the importance of self-empathy and seeking support.
(13:03) Enhancing Empathy and Generating Ideas"
Compassion and empathy are important in challenging situations, using visualization, seeking advice, and creative problem-solving.
(20:42) Generating Ideas and Taking Action
Nature's transformative power through kindness, gratitude, and small steps for change, using examples like fitness and organization.